Buy Bushwood

December 2nd, 2022 at 2:05 PM ^

Well, I remember in week 1 lipreading Tommy Fumble Rees as he spoke to the starting QB on the headset.  Rees was screaming "Just do your fucking job", and, being a supervisor of professionals myself, I thought: geez what a great guy to work for or to teach young men how to improve in big moments.  

BlueMk1690

December 2nd, 2022 at 2:24 PM ^

Well I'm by no means a big ND fan, in fact I dislike them so much I don't even want to play them, but I mean surely we can all appreciate the difference between a football coach talking to a player during a heated physical contest and a corporate manager in a 1-on-1 with a subordinate.

People on forums like this one often wonder how a Brian Kelly can be a successful coach even though he seems like an easily angered asshole who seems mostly worried about his own reputation and doesn't really give a shit about the players he's coaching. And the answer is that the culture in college football, a 99.99% male environment with a focus on controlled aggression and hierarchy, does not generally match that of an average workplace in 2022.

And that as a result the involved people, players and coaches, have very different expectations of how people interact and how bosses interact with subordinates, what tone is appropriate etc.

 

BlueMk1690

December 2nd, 2022 at 3:30 PM ^

Coaches are not trying to reach and motivate you or the average MGoBlog poster, but 18-19 year old kids from a variety of backgrounds and life experiences. Some of them will likely view the coach screaming at them the exact same way you do, others may well respond to that more than to some dude trying to have a calm, constructive feedback session. Some of them may see calmly issued, rational feedback in fact as something that can safely be ignored, after all if it was urgent then why would it be uttered in such a calm fashion?

I can speak for myself as a young gun out of college that I was glad my first boss was a woman who didn't suffer fools gladly and didn't hesitate to 'kick my ass' verbally if I fucked up. I vastly preferred that over some of the nicey nicey managers who quietly railroaded you instead.

blueheron

December 2nd, 2022 at 4:12 PM ^

I've had conversations like this at work many times. It's possible to tear someone a new back orifice in a civil manner. As long as you're being understood (something you can easily check in real time) there's rarely* any point in screaming or shouting. It demeans sender and recipient.

* Some people, including a few members of my extended family, have grown up in noisy, emotional, and chaotic environments. They don't know how else to communicate, so screaming is probably just right for them.

befuggled

December 2nd, 2022 at 2:56 PM ^

I have to agree with this take.

Let's say a QB throws an interception and Kelly yells at him on the sideline. I'm pretty sure the QB knows he fucked up; he doesn't need Kelly to go code purple on him to figure that out.

I guess if Kelly were imparting priceless knowledge at the top of his lungs I could see it, but let's face facts: when he's in purple mode Kelly is too angry to be teaching anything useful. 

Buy Bushwood

December 2nd, 2022 at 3:18 PM ^

And Brian Kelly is clearly disliked by those working with him, as evidenced by essentially no players or coaches following him to LSU.   Have you ever seen Harbaugh yell at a player, much less yell profanity?  As someone who has supervised many people, and tried to study effective leadership for self-improvement, I can tell you that there's strong evidence to show that belligerence and fear in a leader gets worse results than leadership based on respect, trust, buy-in, and clear, calm accountability.   

mgoblue_in_bay

December 2nd, 2022 at 3:29 PM ^

I think (with no evidence) that it has more to do with the coach - some coaches coach one way, others the others.

I would be interested in seeing stories about a coach with a very good reputation of yelling at players that perform better with yelling, and coddling those that perform better with coddling.

MGlobules

December 2nd, 2022 at 3:31 PM ^

People say this enough for it to have become a readily accepted cliche. But a college football coach is the administrator of a very large operation, one in which a lot of yelling absolutely does not get the job done. 

I'd bet that if we perform some longitudinal studies what we'd find is that--yes--some coaches do succeed with a mix of shouting and quiet blandishments, just like abusive husbands do. But my hunch is few last long. At some point, those coaches who ride on pure emotion, and they may not all be screamers or abusive, have to grow up. Become men. I think that we saw Harbaugh do that before our very eyes. He's gone from lovable nutcake to statesman. He had to. Remaining the same might have killed him. 

This is also (being more speculative now) why those few coaches who remain stuck in third gear--the Dantonios, the Izzos, the Kellys, strike us as. . . somewhat monstrous. And kinda broken, win or lose. 

Kevin13

December 2nd, 2022 at 2:09 PM ^

Thought he looked very good any time I saw him play. As the article states he should have a ton of suitors and be able to find a good place to land 

BornInA2

December 2nd, 2022 at 2:16 PM ^

It's pretty easy to forget that these student-athletes are supposed to be getting an education and the current perpetual free-agent setup doesn't support that.

Yeah, I know, it's an old school position that they are students first and athletes second.

swalburn

December 2nd, 2022 at 2:17 PM ^

I wonder how much tampering is going on right now.  This kid has been playing better and better.  I don't understand why he would leave before the bowl unless he was being promised things.  It is basically free agency.