RIP Ian Miskelley, junior on Michigan Men’s Swim team

Submitted by Wolverine Devotee on September 10th, 2020 at 1:57 PM

Michigan announced the unexpected passing on Monday of junior swimmer Ian Miskelley. 

Ian was a 4x State Champion at Holland Christian High School, a 2020 B1G All-Academic selection and a 2x U-M Academic Achievement recipient. He was also part of the 2020 B1G Men’s Swimming & Diving Championship team.

https://swimswam.com/university-of-michigan-swimmer-ian-miskelley-dies/

Rest in peace, Ian. Thank for everything you gave to the Block M. 
 

BigVig

September 10th, 2020 at 5:30 PM ^

"We both fought our demons and he was always there to talk. Whether it was our demons or marvel movies we always had good conversations. I’m going to miss him more than anything,” MLA teammate Julian Barrios said.

Perhaps a missed opportunity to educate people about mental health issues, depression, etc. but maybe in time, that can be discussed.  In the meantime, thoughts and prayers, etc.

LSA Aught One

September 10th, 2020 at 5:56 PM ^

No such thing as a missed opportunity.  Things to know:

  1. The world is a better place with you than without you
  2. Though #1 never seems to be true when you are in the dark places, it is
  3. Your friends WANT you to reach out to them for help.
  4. Though #3 never seems to be true when you are in the dark places, it is
  5. No matter how bad it is right now, it will get better with time.
  6. Though #5 never seems to be true when you are in the dark places, it is
  7. Your true friends rise to the surface when you are in the dark places.
  8. If you are having ideations (thoughts of suicide), you can go to any emergency room and they will take you in until you can figure out what to do next.  I've done it and it's saved my life twice.
  9. Take your meds.  Full stop.  If they don't seem to be working, go to the doctor and change them until they do.  Meds make it so much easier.
  10. When your thought patterns start to spiral, stand up and go for a walk.  I visualize a white board with nothing on it.  It forces me to stop thinking bad thoughts and move forward.

BlueRob

September 10th, 2020 at 8:25 PM ^

Has it been confirmed that this was a suicide?  Both articles linked do not mention anything about cause of death?  

No matter what the cause was, it is very sad and I pray for their family's loss.  I just hope this isn't jumping to a conclusion based on the above statement.

As a father of 4, I can't imagine the heartbreak of losing a child.  No one should have to go through that.

 

buddha

September 10th, 2020 at 5:58 PM ^

So incredibly tragic for his family, his friends, and his teammates. My heart goes out to all of them during this time of mourning.

Rest In Peace 

Andystubs

September 10th, 2020 at 9:49 PM ^

Proud alum of M Swim program, though it’s been so long, I’m no longer so connected.  This one has been haunting me all day.  Feel for his teammates, coaches, and family.   Nothing tougher to go through.  Keep it moving men.