I Am Skeep - An AAU Basketball Diary

Submitted by XM - Mt 1822 on May 12th, 2023 at 10:18 PM

Mates,

This is ostensibly a basketball diary, specifically about college basketball recruiting and AAU participation, but we'll start at a different point:   Long ago, after the glaciers had receded and most houses had plumbing and electricity, there was a bar in Ann Arbor called Dooley's.  It was part of a chain and was pretty popular.  You could go there on St. Patrick's day and start drinking green beer @ 0600 hrs - I know this because I did that once and went to a 300-level Chem class later in the day.   Sometime in the '90's Dooley's got shut down by the Liquor Control Commission for, unsurprisingly, serving underage drinkers.  And in it's place was born Scorekeepers, affectionately known as 'Skeeps' to those of you who have ever been there.  Skeeps was apparently a regular hang-out for our former All B10 center, one Hunter Dickinson. 

Last weekend I was in Ann Arbor with our youngest daughter who plays AAU hoops.  It was the same tournament that Harbaugh's daughter was in, and it was held at many different facilities because of it's size.  I wrote a diary about AAU sports in general sometime last year.  AAU hoops has been the province my dear Mgowife, but this past weekend I am the one who took the roadtrip and had a great 'daddy-daughter' weekend which included a ton of hoops, some great chow, and even a movie (see GOtG3 thread, below).  But going to the games and being on the floor gave a new perspective.  

College Coaches and the Importance of AAU Hoops

College coaches have at least as hard of a time attending high school hoops games for recruiting purposes as do football coaches and for the same reason, the seasons 100% overlap.  If you've seen the front page posts from guys like Matt EM, you will frequently see video highlights of a given player at what looks like a high school hoops court, but with a different set-up - the stands are rolled back, there are other games going on at the same facility, and it is a bustling atmosphere, to say the least.   

The coaches can attend these and be completely focused on the potential recruits since there are no games for their college to interfere.  You will see a few around each court, usually wearing something like a golf shirt that has their college logo on it, maybe with a notebook in their hand.  As I have mentioned before, the proper etiquette is to not approach them, don't engage in conversation, and if you pass by one that you might know, you simply say 'Hi' and keep walking.  They have work to do - there are literally hundreds and sometimes thousands of players at a given tournament, there are multiple brackets in which the teams are placed, multiple venues for the games, and with what is called 'bracket' play, you have to keep track on the fly because, for instance, if a team you want to watch just won their game a 10:30, they might have another one suddenly set in an hour or two, and it might not be at the facility you're at.  They are hustling, let them do their job. 

And it bears repeating, AAU season is more important for the players in terms of recruiting than their high school season - much more.  Some player opt out of their high school teams completely and sadly, our dear daughter is considering this given that her coach is a nightmare and has driven many players away.  It may be that daughter will have her offer list, make her pick, and skip the senior high school season.   Its a shame, too, since she loves basketball every bit as much as our boys love football.  We'll see. 

AAU Families   

The AAU families span the spectrum of economic circumstances.  It is a very interesting mix, and as you might imagine, they tend to be v-e-r-y involved.  I sat next to one set of parents last week for another team and the dad was non-stop talk, ref comments, things for his daughter to do or that she should've been doing.  Non-stop.  In general though the parents are pretty well-behaved and knowledgeable about the game.  You can find some wild brawls on the internet but I'd guess that is extremely rare. 

Referees and the AAU Game

An AAU game is completely different than your normal high school game in so many ways. The intensity and physicality is off the scale.  Typically we might complain about so many calls in a given game but in AAU ball you have earn your foul, and I do mean earn it. There are no ticky-tack calls, loose balls are like a rugby scrum, and nobody whines about it.  In a way, it makes the game easier to ref and the game flows much, much better.  You can't go all '90's Pistons Bad Boys', but you can play defense.  Also, the offensive game flows much better.  The kids are there to play and to shoot, they run their sets and boom, shot goes up.  

On the whole I thought the refereeing was excellent and even-handed.  Refs in general take a lot of heat, but in this context they did great.  The mantra is 'Let them play' and man, they let them play.  The game are very enjoyable and the pace of the games is not the least of reasons. 

As to the games themselves, they play two 20 minute halves, the last 4 minutes of the second half is stop time if the gap in score is 20 pts or less.  Some tournaments have the last 2 minutes of each half go stop time. 

I am Skeep  

I'm the football dad, dear wife handles girls hoops.  She knows the coach, the kids, and most of the parents.  I am tabla rasa and before the first game (@ 0830hrs, I might add) I go and introduce myself to our coach and we chat for a while.  He's a boys high school coach, turns out a really good guy, played football and basketball as a younger person and has coached hoops for 20 years.  We hit it off.   I am on the floor because I have been tasked by dear wife to film every highlight so that when I get home she can do her 'Momager' job and comb through all the video, put the best together in a shore highlight film, and send it out the cyber-world for recruiting.  

But then, about a minute before game time, coach finds out that his regular scorer isn't there and he needs a scorer.  He looks at me and asks if I could fill in.  My response is 'Uh, sure, ah...what do I do?'  Some of you may have done this before, some may be quite experienced and say, 'Ah, nothing to it. Any idiot can do it', but I'm not just any idiot, I am a champion idiot.  So coach shows me the scorer sheet, it has all manner of lines, fouls, points, total fouls, score, and columns simply there to confuse me.  I know it's a trap.  But immediately the ref comes over and has the ball in his hand and say, 'Ready to go?  Great' and turns and blows the whistle and the other ref does the jump ball.   And just like that, I am Skeep. 

It's easy to chirp from the cheap seats, but it's a whole 'nother matter when you are the one who has to have it 100% correct and in real-time.  You are focused on the game.  You are marking player fouls, team fouls, player points, team points, turning that arrow-thingy, and the game is moving faster than you think.    It's not 'rocket surgery' but you have to have your head in the game and make exactly zero mistakes.  It gets easier as the game goes on.  The timekeeper next to me is an experienced hand a good dude.  It all worked out with no controversies or problems.  Whew.   And I did it the next game.  But the game after that, I operated the clock.  Spartan Bob might be sent to Hades, but I have to tell you, when the game is on the line and fractions of seconds matter, it's harder than you think to hit those buttons in the exact time that you should. 

All in all, a really enjoyable weekend.  Daughter's team lost in the championship game but after so many games in 2 day period, in a way you just aren't that concerned about the outcome.  Great time with daughter, great recruiting, and now, I am not a video guy, I am Skeep.

XM 

 

 

Comments

Oregon Wolverine

May 14th, 2023 at 10:34 AM ^

‘Hoops, ‘25. 

Echo the comments of OP, great refs, fast-paced, physical ball.  Some really great players.  
 

Re the OP‘s comments regarding “real time” and the pace of decision making. I am a trial lawyer with 30+ years of experience and know my way around the court room exceptionally well (tomorrow I start day six of trial in a complicated case that I’ve tried 2x before, gotten in reversed once in the Oregon Supreme Court, a second time in the Court of Appeals).  
 

In circumstances where I’ve served as a mock trial judge, I’m sometimes shocked how quickly I need to make decisions on very little information. It’s informed me well in terms of my practice and presentation in the courtroom — how difficult a judge’s job really is.

 

Oregon Wolverine

May 15th, 2023 at 10:19 AM ^

Have tried many more than once due to reversals or hung juries. Already told the prosecutors in the current one to count on round 4 as there are significant appellate issues, if we do not win.  Prosecutors were not very happy when I mentioned round 4 -- but I'm not in it to make them happy.  Court of Appeals dodged one of the most important issues last time (admission of prior bad acts) -- both sides practically begged them to address at oral argument to decrease the odds of round 4.  

My practice is primarily complex criminal (state, federal, usually clients facing serious time, often w/sex offense allegations), some professional responsibility (licensure, plaintiff's malpractice), and some civil (usually civil rights or plaintiff in crime victim lawsuits).  The civil is really an off shoot of my criminal work.  Have had lots of trials in both state and federal court.

Mine is a three-lawyer firm, about to become four.  

Practice throughout Oregon, occasional pro hac in Washington.  Still have inactive license from my early days of practice in California.  

M Hoops is coming to Eugene in December -- come out and we can connect!

XM - Mt 1822

May 15th, 2023 at 12:19 PM ^

love the moxie.  like you, still have my cal license from my early days, too.  

and thank you for the invite, but we are way busy in december with our own hoops, at least 3 of the younger kids will be playing high school ball then.  however, should you have occasion to get back to michigan, well, look me up.  

 

Blue@LSU

May 12th, 2023 at 11:08 PM ^

Good shit, Skeep!

In HS I would earn $20 on Sundays by running the clock and the scoreboard for men's rec. league basketball games. I'd have 40 yr old guys arguing with me about stopping the clock 1 second too soon or late. I can't imagine what it'd be like with the players' parents in the stands. That's a lot of pressure. Glad you survived.

Good luck to the daughter! I hope the scholarship offers are rolling in.

XM - Mt 1822

May 13th, 2023 at 6:46 AM ^

fortunately i only had one very minor slip up on the clock (few seconds delay starting it coming out of a time out) and nobody but me and the other skeep noticed.  we were not the focus of any parent barbs, but thinking about it a bit, it's one thing for them to mouth off to a nice high school kid whose just trying his best, it's another to mouth off to a full grown man who looks more like a high school principal.  

daughter has multiple offers which is very nice.  one school in particular is in the lead, so to speak, and i think the coach wants to have a zoom call with daughter and both of us parents next week.  

Blue Vet

May 13th, 2023 at 6:55 AM ^

You? A champion idiot? Please. 

With all due respect, can you out-idiot me?

My son's baseball game, the ump didn't show up, I volunteered. First batter, close play at first, what's the call? I dunno. I'm standing there, silent, with my thumb in my . . . ear, waiting for the replay or something. I make a call, decide it's wrong, and everyone sees me almost change it. 

Anyway, congratulations on a wonderful weekend with your daughter, and good luck with her sports journey. 

XM - Mt 1822

May 13th, 2023 at 7:43 AM ^

similar story re: refereeing hockey.  playing midgets, the game after us is for squirts and didn't have refs so they ask me and the other captain to fill in.  we did so, i think we did okay, i remember no controversies, but it was always in the back of my mind since then that ref'ing in real-time is way harder than you think and has undoubtedly led me to be at least a little easier on refs over the years.  

ILL_Legel

May 13th, 2023 at 9:05 AM ^

Thanks for sharing XM.  I do have questions though!

Did you get video from someone?  If our Momager gave me instructions and I came back empty handed, I might get fired.  

How is football going for the boys?  I enjoyed the diaries about football recruiting.

XM - Mt 1822

May 13th, 2023 at 9:32 AM ^

of all the games, there were 2 that i wasn't skeep so i did get those.  got a couple of nice 3pt shots, some steals, assists, etc.  to your point though, momager was definitely discouraging me from being the skeep, however, as the mgodad/hubby and the way our house works, no flak was given.

spring ball was good for the one son still playing college ball.  he is/will be the full-time starter as a RS sophomore, after starting on most of the special teams and splitting snaps last year with the senior starter at his normal position as a RS frosh.  i think i wrote a dairy about that last fall, 'dad i'm on the bus'.  i  went to their spring scrimmage/game last month and really enjoyed it, loved talking to his teammates afterwards, i have been impressed with every one of them that i've met.  clear-eyed, polite, uber-bright, good kids.  

the next two up will be junior starters on their high school team.  at a track meet today, but all of that is only in preparation for football since football is king in our house.  

Amaizing Blue

May 14th, 2023 at 11:18 AM ^

Enjoyable read, XM.  I was the skeep for our boys team at my first teaching job at Leelanau School.  We went to Freesoil and played in their old gym, where the floor was probably 70% regulation size.  Very little defense, lots of three-pointers in a compressed space.  Final score was 171-94, wore out a few pencils in that one!

Booted Blue in PA

May 15th, 2023 at 8:20 AM ^

Always a good read XM.  Between the youth sports (including travel) the homestead farm, fulltime employment..... you wear me out just trying to keep track.  There's no doubt your COO (Mrs XM) is an absolute MVP keeping things in line and on schedule.

HighBeta

May 16th, 2023 at 10:14 AM ^

Outstanding write up, XM! And thanks for the further insight into you, your bride, and your tribe. You have my admiration. 

Having been, briefly (in the grand scheme of things), a baseball parent, I confess to restricting myself to watching from the stands and vocally cheering for the scion's efforts. I also confess to steadfastly refusing to ump, coach, or score any game, ever, wherever and whenever. The kids deserved competence and, as Clint E. once mumbled, "A man's got to know his limitations".

May your children get accepted to their first choice schools, be starting stars thereon, and you plus your bride enjoy watching their successes for as long as you two wish. 

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