Way OT - favorite sad songs??

Submitted by DetroitBlue on May 17th, 2019 at 11:20 AM

Been here for 10+ years and this is my first OP so please be gentle. I’m looking for recommendations for sad songs. Genre doesn’t really matter - I like a little bit of everything.

Been going through a rough patch and always helps me to hear someone else in the same place. Whatcha got? And thanks in advance. 

rpmi

May 17th, 2019 at 12:54 PM ^

I like sad songs in bunches. I like how the first three songs on Beatles for Sale were darker than any of the love and pop songs on their earlier albums (No Reply, I'm a Loser, and Baby's in Black). The second side of Bob Dylan's Highway 61 Revisited is epic sadness (Queen Jane Approximately, Highway 61 Revisited, Just Like Tom Thumb's Blues, and Desolation Row). I adore the beginning of Otis Blue/Otis Redding Sings Soul (Old Man Trouble, Respect, A Change is Gonna Come).

oriental andrew

May 17th, 2019 at 12:55 PM ^

"Pictures of You" by The Cure - memories of middle school angst for me. 

"Last night I dreamt that somebody loved me" by The Smiths

"Eleanor Rigby" by The Beatles

"Tears in Heaven" by Eric Clapton - written for his son who died at age 4

"Cinderella" by Steven Curtis Chapman - it's the backstory which makes it particularly tearful. originally written for his two young daughters as a reminder to cherish the fleeting moments with them. A few months later, his son was pulling into the driveway when one of those girls, 5 year old Maria Sue, got excited, ran into its path, and was killed. Maybe it just gets to me as a father of two daughters...

rposly

May 17th, 2019 at 12:59 PM ^

Just off the top of my head:

"All That's Gone" by Tom McRae.  If you like to wallow in the lost promise of your youth, this is your jam.

"Ashes Everywhere" by Joseph Arthur.  If you like to suffer over loved ones who've died (specifically by suicide), this is your jam.

"Words Fail" and "So Big/So Small" from Dear Evan Hansen.  Really need to be taken in the context of the whole show, which is absolutely heart-shattering.

"I Know It's Over" by The Smiths.  Classic wallowing to an almost pathetic degree.

"Out to Get You" by James.  Sleepy paranoia.

"Happy Birthday, Johnny" by St. Vincent.  Wayward friends lost.

"If You Miss Me" by Trip Shakespeare.  For falling asleep.

MaizeGVBlue

May 17th, 2019 at 1:03 PM ^

"It won't be like this for long" by Darius Rucker.  The Mrs. played this song for me after our daughter was born and to this day (9 years later) I still can't listen to it without crying like a fat kid being told there's no more ice cream.

Newton Gimmick

May 17th, 2019 at 1:05 PM ^

Weyes Blood - "In the Beginning"

Richard Buckner - "Hindsight"

Haley Heynderickx - "The Bug Collector"

Eels - "Railroad Man"

Mercury Rev - "Holes"

Phosphorescent - "Song for Zula" or "C'est la Vie #2"

 

SFBlue

May 17th, 2019 at 1:16 PM ^

"Marie," Randy Newman

"Fiddler's Green," The Tragically Hip

"Don't Forget Me," Harry Nilsson 

"Ocean Breathes Salty," Modest Mouse

"Summer's Gone," Kinks

 

Blue Balls Afire

May 17th, 2019 at 1:18 PM ^

“Majesty” by Madrugada, especially the live version at Tralfamadore. 

“The Fire Thief” by Hem.

“Forest Fire” by Lloyd Cole and the Commotions.

“I’ll Fall With Your Knife” by Peter Murphy. 

“Hymn To Her” by The Pretenders. 

“Concrete Angel” the acoustic version by Christina Novelli. 

“Her Song” by Hungry Lucy. 

“Bleeder” by Emiliana Torrini. 

freelion

May 17th, 2019 at 1:20 PM ^

When September Ends by Green Day has become a new favorite for me

Landslide by Fleetwood Mac always gets me

Just about anything by Journey or Air Supply qualifies

SeasideBlue

May 17th, 2019 at 1:22 PM ^

I'll go a totally different direction:

 

Gorecki Symphony of Sorrowful Songs. 

 

It starts off slow and morose and just gets darker after that.

 

 

club2230

May 17th, 2019 at 1:27 PM ^

Weary Kind from the movie Crazy Heart is good.

Very specific but The Wreck of The Edmund Fitzgerald is pretty sad.  "Does anyone know where the love of God goes when the waves turn the minutes to hours"

trustBlue

May 17th, 2019 at 1:41 PM ^

Love this question.

I feel a little out place, with so many references to Pearl Jam and Ben Folds Five etc, but for my money the saddest songs:  

1. Billie Holiday  - Gloomy Sunday (This song will tear at your soul - Nobody sang sad songs like Billie and this is her saddest). 

2. Pink Floyd - I Wish You Were Here. 

MotownGoBlue

May 17th, 2019 at 1:41 PM ^

Wake Up - Mad Season

Say Hello to Heaven - Temple of the Dog 

Whale and Wasp - Alice in Chains 

Scarborough Fair - Simon and Garfunkel

Could Have Lied - Red Hot Chili Peppers

Angie - The Rolling Stones  

Danwitz

May 17th, 2019 at 1:54 PM ^

Just the first two off the top of my head:

1 - "wake up in New York City" - Craig Armstrong (feat. Evan Dando)

2 - "it can't rain all the time" - Jane Siberry

good luck with the rough patch, it'll get better!

SFBlue

May 17th, 2019 at 1:55 PM ^

I nominate Tom Waits here as well, if you prefer to take your pathos with a hearty dose of bathos. "A solider's things" (poignant, never directly dealing with the subject); "Tom Taubert's Blues," (song for the dumped, a fifth of Bushmills deep in Copenhagen); "Time" (that you love, sadness cloaked in ambiguity); "World Keeps Turning" (to all the girls I loved before); "Where the Train Goes Slow" (on redemption and the lure of the low road). 

mpleafan

May 17th, 2019 at 2:08 PM ^

Idk how you feel about Country, but that's my specialty. Zac Brown Band's new one, Someone I Used to Know is sad with an uplifting ending and has an amazing music video to go with it. I cried when I watched it I wont lie

To add to that, You Should be Here by Cole Swindell, Drink a Beer by Luke Bryan, 5 More Minutes by Scotty McCreery, and of course Hurt (Made famous by NIN) by Johnny Cash.

Stay strong!

Maize-achusetts

May 17th, 2019 at 2:16 PM ^

Gotta go with "I can't make you love me" by Bonnie Raitt.  Recently broke up with the live-in GF after 15 years - Don't know why it's comforting, but somehow it is.

BOX House

May 17th, 2019 at 2:25 PM ^

"songs that she sang in the shower"

"elephant"

- jason isbell. i rode the album Southeastern hard while getting sober from alcohol/dealing with crippling depression

scrodnals

May 17th, 2019 at 2:56 PM ^

Lots of amazing sad Grateful Dead songs: 

  1. Brokedown Palace
  2. Box of Rain (written by Phil Lesh and Robert Hunter to sing to Phil's dying father)
  3. Black Muddy River
  4. So Many Roads
  5. Days Between
  6. Stella Blue
  7. Attics of My Life
  8. Black Throated Wind
  9. He's Gone
  10. Looks Like Rain
  11. Ship of Fools

A few that are upbeat but still wrapped in sorrow:

  1. Big River
  2. Going Down the Road Feeling Bad
  3. Touch of Grey
  4. Ripple
  5. Cassidy

johnhugo

May 17th, 2019 at 3:23 PM ^

The Smiths - Asleep  

hopefully you're not in that rough of a patch.

 

Johnny Cash or Hank Williams Sr. - Long Black Veil - often voted as the best sad song ever written.  

Also:

The long Ride home - Patty Griffin

9 Crimes - Damien Rice

 

GoBlueCA

May 17th, 2019 at 3:28 PM ^

"She kills me" by Biff Bang Pow! ...... still my favorite (sad) song of all time

"Well I wonder" by The Smiths    ...... my favorite sad song by my favorite band

"Ex-factor" by Lauryn Hill             ...... song that made me uncontrollably cry when first listening to it

Don

May 17th, 2019 at 3:37 PM ^

194 comments filled with sad songs?

I don't think I could come up with even one, and I'm already dead.

BPONE rules, apparently.

markusr2007

May 17th, 2019 at 3:52 PM ^

Dude, DO NOT LISTEN TO SAD SONGS.

Sad songs are not gonna help one iota. Why dwell in misery and unhealthy idealism?

Rough patch?

Death metal is always best.

I recommend Slayer, Raining Blood.

Also check out Prong, Snap your fingers, Snap your neck,  and our teutonic friends Rammstein: https://youtu.be/1kB64dLWJ6s

Always a great pick me up!!