Way OT - favorite sad songs??
Been here for 10+ years and this is my first OP so please be gentle. I’m looking for recommendations for sad songs. Genre doesn’t really matter - I like a little bit of everything.
Been going through a rough patch and always helps me to hear someone else in the same place. Whatcha got? And thanks in advance.
Love Foxing. Missed them last time they swung through Cleveland and hoping it’s not too long before they come back again.
Shit while I’m here...
”Sun Ain’t Gonna Shine Anymore” - The Walker Brothers
”What Becomes of the Brokenhearted” - Jimmy Ruffin
”All I Need” - Radiohead
”How to Disappear Completely” - Radiohead
“Skeletons” - Yeah Yeah Yeahs
Tears in Heaven by Eric Clapton. A really depressing song, but a really good one nonetheless.
I like sad songs in bunches. I like how the first three songs on Beatles for Sale were darker than any of the love and pop songs on their earlier albums (No Reply, I'm a Loser, and Baby's in Black). The second side of Bob Dylan's Highway 61 Revisited is epic sadness (Queen Jane Approximately, Highway 61 Revisited, Just Like Tom Thumb's Blues, and Desolation Row). I adore the beginning of Otis Blue/Otis Redding Sings Soul (Old Man Trouble, Respect, A Change is Gonna Come).
Some great selections in here, and I'll just add the original Sam Cooke version of A Change Is Gonna Come.
"Pictures of You" by The Cure - memories of middle school angst for me.
"Last night I dreamt that somebody loved me" by The Smiths
"Eleanor Rigby" by The Beatles
"Tears in Heaven" by Eric Clapton - written for his son who died at age 4
"Cinderella" by Steven Curtis Chapman - it's the backstory which makes it particularly tearful. originally written for his two young daughters as a reminder to cherish the fleeting moments with them. A few months later, his son was pulling into the driveway when one of those girls, 5 year old Maria Sue, got excited, ran into its path, and was killed. Maybe it just gets to me as a father of two daughters...
Supermarket Flowers by Ed Sheeran
Once upon a time by Frank Sinatra
Just off the top of my head:
"All That's Gone" by Tom McRae. If you like to wallow in the lost promise of your youth, this is your jam.
"Ashes Everywhere" by Joseph Arthur. If you like to suffer over loved ones who've died (specifically by suicide), this is your jam.
"Words Fail" and "So Big/So Small" from Dear Evan Hansen. Really need to be taken in the context of the whole show, which is absolutely heart-shattering.
"I Know It's Over" by The Smiths. Classic wallowing to an almost pathetic degree.
"Out to Get You" by James. Sleepy paranoia.
"Happy Birthday, Johnny" by St. Vincent. Wayward friends lost.
"If You Miss Me" by Trip Shakespeare. For falling asleep.
"It won't be like this for long" by Darius Rucker. The Mrs. played this song for me after our daughter was born and to this day (9 years later) I still can't listen to it without crying like a fat kid being told there's no more ice cream.
Weyes Blood - "In the Beginning"
Richard Buckner - "Hindsight"
Haley Heynderickx - "The Bug Collector"
Eels - "Railroad Man"
Mercury Rev - "Holes"
Phosphorescent - "Song for Zula" or "C'est la Vie #2"
Stop and Stare - OneRepublic
Also Day N Nite by Kid Cudi, but that's a diff type of song depending on what you define as sad
I always remember the full length theme from Cheers being really depressing, same with M.A.S.H.
"Suicide Is Painless"
"Marie," Randy Newman
"Fiddler's Green," The Tragically Hip
"Don't Forget Me," Harry Nilsson
"Ocean Breathes Salty," Modest Mouse
"Summer's Gone," Kinks
“Majesty” by Madrugada, especially the live version at Tralfamadore.
“The Fire Thief” by Hem.
“Forest Fire” by Lloyd Cole and the Commotions.
“I’ll Fall With Your Knife” by Peter Murphy.
“Hymn To Her” by The Pretenders.
“Concrete Angel” the acoustic version by Christina Novelli.
“Her Song” by Hungry Lucy.
“Bleeder” by Emiliana Torrini.
When September Ends by Green Day has become a new favorite for me
Landslide by Fleetwood Mac always gets me
Just about anything by Journey or Air Supply qualifies
I'll go a totally different direction:
Gorecki Symphony of Sorrowful Songs.
It starts off slow and morose and just gets darker after that.
Pretty much any songs from the Once album by Glen Hansard
Weary Kind from the movie Crazy Heart is good.
Very specific but The Wreck of The Edmund Fitzgerald is pretty sad. "Does anyone know where the love of God goes when the waves turn the minutes to hours"
Totally agree. I have the same thought every November when that song gets a lot of play and when I visit some areas on the great lakes.
Love this question.
I feel a little out place, with so many references to Pearl Jam and Ben Folds Five etc, but for my money the saddest songs:
1. Billie Holiday - Gloomy Sunday (This song will tear at your soul - Nobody sang sad songs like Billie and this is her saddest).
2. Pink Floyd - I Wish You Were Here.
Wake Up - Mad Season
Say Hello to Heaven - Temple of the Dog
Whale and Wasp - Alice in Chains
Scarborough Fair - Simon and Garfunkel
Could Have Lied - Red Hot Chili Peppers
Angie - The Rolling Stones
"Why" by Rascal Flatts. Obligatory trigger warning: it's about suicide, but it is a beautiful song.
Just the first two off the top of my head:
1 - "wake up in New York City" - Craig Armstrong (feat. Evan Dando)
2 - "it can't rain all the time" - Jane Siberry
good luck with the rough patch, it'll get better!
Jane Siberry . . . makes me think about digging out my "Crow" soundtrack CD. This makes me old in multiple ways.
I nominate Tom Waits here as well, if you prefer to take your pathos with a hearty dose of bathos. "A solider's things" (poignant, never directly dealing with the subject); "Tom Taubert's Blues," (song for the dumped, a fifth of Bushmills deep in Copenhagen); "Time" (that you love, sadness cloaked in ambiguity); "World Keeps Turning" (to all the girls I loved before); "Where the Train Goes Slow" (on redemption and the lure of the low road).
One of my favorite artists, Jason Isbell, is the current king of sad songs.
Elephant
If We Were Vampires
There are several others too.
dang beat me to it. +1 for taste
will check those out for sure - last of my kind came across spotify radio and i liked that one
He is an absolutely brilliant songwriter, but his sad songs in particular just cut you deep.
"What Sarah said" by death cab for cutie makes me bawl, like snot bubbles and everything.
Also "oh my God" - jars of clay
Idk how you feel about Country, but that's my specialty. Zac Brown Band's new one, Someone I Used to Know is sad with an uplifting ending and has an amazing music video to go with it. I cried when I watched it I wont lie
To add to that, You Should be Here by Cole Swindell, Drink a Beer by Luke Bryan, 5 More Minutes by Scotty McCreery, and of course Hurt (Made famous by NIN) by Johnny Cash.
Stay strong!
Gotta go with "I can't make you love me" by Bonnie Raitt. Recently broke up with the live-in GF after 15 years - Don't know why it's comforting, but somehow it is.
Nutshell or Down in a Hole by Alice In Chains
Depending on age...
Akon - Lonely
or
Bobby Vinton - Mr. Lonely
Adagio for Strings by Samuel Barber
It's on the Platoon soundtrack.
Such a great piece
"songs that she sang in the shower"
"elephant"
- jason isbell. i rode the album Southeastern hard while getting sober from alcohol/dealing with crippling depression
"I can't make you love me" by Bonnie Raitt
"Take it down" John Hiatt
Down in it
NIN
30 Seconds to Mars - Alibi
Epic slow buildup to last verses with Jared Leto just belting out "I fell apart"
Lots of amazing sad Grateful Dead songs:
- Brokedown Palace
- Box of Rain (written by Phil Lesh and Robert Hunter to sing to Phil's dying father)
- Black Muddy River
- So Many Roads
- Days Between
- Stella Blue
- Attics of My Life
- Black Throated Wind
- He's Gone
- Looks Like Rain
- Ship of Fools
A few that are upbeat but still wrapped in sorrow:
- Big River
- Going Down the Road Feeling Bad
- Touch of Grey
- Ripple
- Cassidy
Ohne Dich (Without You) - Rammstein
The Smiths - Asleep
hopefully you're not in that rough of a patch.
Johnny Cash or Hank Williams Sr. - Long Black Veil - often voted as the best sad song ever written.
Also:
The long Ride home - Patty Griffin
9 Crimes - Damien Rice
"She kills me" by Biff Bang Pow! ...... still my favorite (sad) song of all time
"Well I wonder" by The Smiths ...... my favorite sad song by my favorite band
"Ex-factor" by Lauryn Hill ...... song that made me uncontrollably cry when first listening to it
194 comments filled with sad songs?
I don't think I could come up with even one, and I'm already dead.
BPONE rules, apparently.
Dude, DO NOT LISTEN TO SAD SONGS.
Sad songs are not gonna help one iota. Why dwell in misery and unhealthy idealism?
Rough patch?
Death metal is always best.
I recommend Slayer, Raining Blood.
Also check out Prong, Snap your fingers, Snap your neck, and our teutonic friends Rammstein: https://youtu.be/1kB64dLWJ6s
Always a great pick me up!!