OT: Where are you sheltering?

Submitted by Blue Haze on April 28th, 2020 at 10:39 AM

Until recently I lived in a very large Midwestern city. When the COVID-19 heat started increasing in mid-March and WFH was clearly around the corner, I bugged out and headed for the (low, Midwestern, rural) hills. It was an easy call. Family had invited me and I'm traveling light (single, no kids). It's very unlikely I had the 'rona at the time but I still quarantined for a couple of weeks just to keep everyone safe.

Just curious: Did anyone else do this? If so, how has the adjustment been for you? It's been mostly pleasant for me. Layoffs / furloughs are almost certainly around the corner, but that's another issue.

JPC

April 28th, 2020 at 10:51 AM ^

I'm pretty ideally located at home (small town, aggressive measures taken locally) so no need to travel. My one regret is being unable to get my mid-60's mother out of California before things got bad. Unfortunately, she couldn't leave her father who has dementia so she's riding it out alone.

twotrueblue

April 28th, 2020 at 10:53 AM ^

Between this and the message board about when we last went to work, I'm really starting to believe Big Brother is after us Mgobloggers...

I got a message for you Big Brother: I didn't do anything wrong! If you want to get someone get Maizen or that weird koala guy!

Watching From Afar

April 28th, 2020 at 11:01 AM ^

My office in Boston went WFH about 2 days before states started seriously curtailing operations. My fiancee's classes were transitioned to online at Harvard the same day IIRC. We took that opportunity to drive back to Michigan. We've been bouncing between my in-laws north of Detroit and parents over in Lansing ever since. ~2 weeks at each house so we don't bother anyone, but long enough that if anyone catches it we probably would know and not leave until the 2 week incubation period (if that's what it still is) passes. Only go out to get groceries but my in-laws usually have theirs delivered.

This was a better option than staying in a hot spot where we lived in a 650 square foot apartment in a complex of 600 units.

The Mad Hatter

April 28th, 2020 at 11:07 AM ^

At home, in Royal Oak. Just down the street from a hospital full of rona patients.

I'm hoping the housing market takes a dip, because Mrs. Hatter was right, our house is too small.

Watching From Afar

April 28th, 2020 at 1:50 PM ^

Starting to look at renting in Ferndale/Hazel Park/Royal Oak/Berkley/Clawson/Beverly Hills area for a year and then buying next year.

Having not grown up in that area, and coming back from the east coast, I have no idea what to expect price wise for a house in a decent area (doesn't have to be really nice or anything). Or if there are areas in those towns that should be avoided.

The Mad Hatter

April 28th, 2020 at 2:57 PM ^

Depends on if you have kids that would be going to a public school.

Take Hazeltucky off your list either way. Probably Ferndale too.

Royal oak and Berkley are both nice and have good schools. Clawson is right next door, but the schools are meh. They recently tried, and failed, to get Troy (great schools) to annex their entire district.

Beverly Hills is very nice. Birmingham schools, which are excellent. It's also a bit more expensive than RO, but less than Birmingham proper.

 

Hotel Putingrad

April 28th, 2020 at 11:22 AM ^

A small town (5K population) with suburbs to the east and farms to the west. In a state with a hyper-conscientious governor. House is just big enough for the 4 of us (plus 3 cats and a small dog).

If nothing else, this experience has taught my wife and me that we should be able to coexist peacefully in retirement when the kids are gone. Of course that also might be the next sexytime.

mi93

April 28th, 2020 at 1:45 PM ^

Co-signed.

I too am looking at this as learnings for retirement.  I'm more convinced than before that I'll actually be able to slow down some and not feel that everything has to be done at warp speed.  Enjoy things on my timeline (vs. pure procrastination; enjoy the process of doing something more than just the outcome).

These kids just need to be able to go off to college...and get off my payroll.

ScooterTooter

April 28th, 2020 at 11:24 AM ^

This entire ordeal has made me realize I should have pulled the trigger on the summer place in Northern Michigan last year. Definitely looking over the next year to do so, so that when I'm 125 for the next pandemic, my robot butler can drive me there. 

1VaBlue1

April 28th, 2020 at 11:50 AM ^

At home, but not really sheltering.  Still go out for food and whatever materials we need for the various activities around the yard and house, so nothing has really changed for me.  Except, of course, for the full-time WFH.  We have a house full of pets (dogs/cats/birds/etc), and a yard full of fowl and poultry, so there's always something to do.  The lack of commute time to/from the office has been the biggest break I've ever experienced!  Roughly 3.5 hours/day back in my life...

I have it pretty good right now, and I'm fully aware of that.  I feel for those that don't have it quite as well, and have been trying to support our local businesses a little more than usual (restaurants, hardware stores, and the like).

WesternWolverine96

April 28th, 2020 at 12:22 PM ^

I am with you dude, I have gratitude for how well I have it right now.

I hate to admit it, but getting a break from the grind was a blessing for me.  No stressful commute, no demanding AAU basketball tournaments to drive to every weekend. 

I am enjoying just doing nothing with my wife, kids and dog, although I still have some work pressure to deal with. 

tspoon

April 28th, 2020 at 12:07 PM ^

At home in the south side of Charlotte.  WFH is old hat for me, so no huge adjustment there.  Kids are well-trained over many years of discipline on that front: if dad's office door is closed, don't even try to knock (let alone barge in).  So far, so good on that front.

After a bit of delay in taking the facemask thing seriously, most places I go around here seem to be observing the appropriate measures fairly well (workers and customers alike).  So if we could just get some darned chicken back on the shelves and my favorite Chinese place would re-open for takeout, we could go on like this for a while.

We generally relocate to a summer place in New England come mid-June.  We will see how that goes...

 

MGoOldGuy

April 28th, 2020 at 12:23 PM ^

My wife went to the grocery store this morning. She said there was one package of chicken drum sticks left and she was there for senior hour.

With the pork and beef plants down and vegetables being tilled under, it could be like the 70s where tv dinners, can goods, and boxes is what you lived on.

WesternWolverine96

April 28th, 2020 at 12:10 PM ^

I have a 1/2 acre just outside of Portland.  My kids have turned that into a BMX track.  There is some pretty extreme air to be had, and my back yard will never recover.

Pretty happy I invested in some new furniture last winter.  We now have basically two living rooms in the house.  The kids are taking one and I get the other for my home office, otherwise I'd be going insane.

Mercury Hayes

April 28th, 2020 at 12:28 PM ^

Sheltering in place at home. My parents watch my daughter and they have been isolating too, no contact outside of us and all groceries and goods are curbside. It's been nice to have help with the daughter and be able to have contact with two other people. That's about it.

rob f

April 28th, 2020 at 12:41 PM ^

For those who are considering going somewhere "in the hills" /rural/"up north", etc. , a reminder: please please PLEASE make sure you and anyone going with fully self-isolate for 2 weeks+ before doing so.  Being selfish by ignoring this simple step of preparation may just mean putting those who live there year-round in great danger.

 

Let's all proceed intelligently and responsibly. 

UMProud

April 28th, 2020 at 12:57 PM ^

At work, in a factory, everyday and quite honestly everyone who continued working at their employer's location deserves a medal when this is all said and done.

RobM_24

April 28th, 2020 at 1:01 PM ^

At home in Northern Indiana and loving it. Packed on some lbs before/after hernia surgery in January, so this lined up perfectly with my ramping up schedule of physical activity. Lost all the weight from the hernia layoff, and some additional post-college weight that's been adding up over the last decade. I'm down 47.2 lbs since lockdown started (I'm 6'5" so it's not as extreme as it sounds). 

I'm probably in the minority, but I could gladly live this this for months at a time every year. Especially if it warms up enough to get in the pool. My body, my house, and my lawn have all benefitted greatly from this extra time. I always felt like I could never catch up on things bc there are no "summer breaks" once you're done with HS/College. This is the break I've been looking for. My "to-do list" is almost wiped clean.

Bluetotheday

April 28th, 2020 at 1:28 PM ^

My home (wife and two kids-8 and 4) are sheltering in La Costa Valley. Carlsbad/Encinitas, San Diego county. Thankfully, we have trails and weather so we are able to be outside all day. In fact, we have two baseball fields, which allows me to hit balls to my son. 
 

I walk 6 miles a day, and am obnoxiously tan. 
 

 

BlueMan80

April 28th, 2020 at 1:45 PM ^

We have a beach house on the Canadian side of Lake Huron, up the coast from Port Huron/Sarnia.  We talked about heading up there for a while because it's just corn and wheat fields in the surrounding area.  Small town of 2000 people is the closest civilization.  Seemed pretty safe.  Well, the border closed before we could head to Canada, so that killed that plan.  We got an email a few weeks later from a neighbor letting us know that a significant coronavirus outbreak was going on in the native community.  Over 100 infected and people were refusing to get tested fearing they would be ostracized by the rest of the tribe.  The local government was trying to work something out fearing a major disaster.  So, our great idea probably could have been a bad outcome.

Staying here in the western suburbs of Chicago has worked out just fine....[knock on wood].

oriental andrew

April 28th, 2020 at 1:46 PM ^

I never left home in the Chicago NW suburbs. My boss is based in NYC (Manhattan), but he and his partner moved in with family in Idaho. His ex-wife and kid live in Brooklyn, but are sheltering in upstate NY somewhere. 

huntmich

April 28th, 2020 at 1:55 PM ^

I had lived in Philly but was slowly going crazy as the city shut down and I was working from home. Family invited me back to Michigan to work remotely there, so I did. Early April I drove back, and quarantined in their basement for 2 weeks.

 

Now I get to enjoy 3 acres, the family dog, and some legit human interaction while working from home. So very similar to you, OP.

Wendyk5

April 28th, 2020 at 2:18 PM ^

In our house with enough space for the four of us to get away from each other if need be. We have a comfortable bed, a decent sized backyard and a grill so I'm not always cooking inside. I'm very grateful for our situation. It could be so much worse. 

BayWolves

April 28th, 2020 at 2:22 PM ^

I'm not sheltering.  Still going to the office, and even going to restaurants to eat on their patios when they are open.  Hosting barbecues and friends and taking walks in the park and boating on the river.  My life is as normal as it was before with the exception of not being able to go to the gym nor eat inside restaurants and bars.

KO Stradivarius

April 28th, 2020 at 2:32 PM ^

I got out of Mich the 3rd week of March and headed to Arizona. Wife was sick out there then with what I assumed was Covid. I thought I was going to be exposed but she tested negative and I have avoided illness so far. It was so very similar that I’m not convinced, and false neg test results are common. She’s better now but since AZ is relatively much less impacted than MI, I’m staying here WFH until the office is opened like in another month or so. It could be worse. 

uminks

April 28th, 2020 at 2:54 PM ^

I'm an essential worker, so I have to report to work. Everything except grocery stores and home improvement stores are open. Take-out is available at some eateries. I've working on gardens out back and running. I miss the gym.

CoverZero

April 28th, 2020 at 2:59 PM ^

I am just living my life as I normally do.  Yes, I wear a mask and gloves, but other than that not much has changed. I work from home anyway.  Last weekend here in So Cal was beautiful .  We went on several hikes in the mountains, cycling, a drive on PCH through Malibu with the top down (LA has the beaches closed and the police were out in force), and also to the gun range for some situational practice and pinging targets.

I will not allow this Democrat Governor, who throws our tax money away and refuses to be accountable for his own actions, to be accountable for mine.  I will live my life, doing my best to avoid the China Virus, and also Avoid giving it to others.  Im pretty sure that I have the anti-bodies after my experience with it in January. 

Live your life.  Do not allow the fear and hype get to you.  Be sensible.