OT- What films have made you cry as an adult?

Submitted by Special Agent Utah on March 28th, 2020 at 9:08 PM

I’ve had tears well up for a few, but the only film I can remember making me full out cry as an adult is the end of “Field of Dreams” when Ray asks his father if he wants to have a catch. 
 

“Glory” doesn’t make me cry, but it moves me in a way no other film does.  

redwhiteandMGOBLUE

March 28th, 2020 at 10:41 PM ^

Forrest, when he's talking to Jenny at her tombstone:

You died on a Saturday morning. And I had you placed here under our tree. And I had that house of your father's bulldozed to the ground. Momma always said dyin' was a part of life. I sure wish it wasn't. Little Forrest, he's doing just fine. About to start school again soon. I make his breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day. I make sure he combs his hair and brushes his teeth every day. Teaching him how to play ping-pong. He's really good. We fish a lot. And every night, we read a book. He's so smart, Jenny. You'd be so proud of him. I am. He, uh, wrote a letter, and he says I can't read it. I'm not supposed to, so I'll just leave it here for you. Jenny, I don't know if Momma was right or if, if it's Lieutenant Dan. I don't know if we each have a destiny, or if we're all just floating around accidental-like on a breeze, but I, I think maybe it's both. Maybe both is happening at the same time. I miss you, Jenny. If there's anything you need, I won't be far away.

Pretty much any movie where a dog dies.

And the Notebook.

trustBlue

March 28th, 2020 at 9:31 PM ^

I don't remember if I physically cried, but Hotel Rwanda was one of the most tense, frightening films I have ever watched and I can still remember the palpable fear I felt in some of the more tense scenes.

HireWayne

March 28th, 2020 at 9:34 PM ^

I don't cry much at movies but I cried 20 minutes consecutively at the end of United 93, 

The bravery of the passengers and the brutality of terrorists invokes so much emotion. 

harmon40

March 28th, 2020 at 9:37 PM ^

It’s a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood came close.

Great redemptive story about the writer. Also nice to know that some of our heroes really are/were heroes

turtleboy

March 28th, 2020 at 10:35 PM ^

Iron giant is such a wonderful movie. Great idea, great writing, perfect pacing and execution, and the theme of wrestling with inner demons and sacrificing innocence. It seems silly to attribute themes like that to a cartoon, but its no stretch of the imagination, they're central to the story. The iron giant might as well have been the beloved family pet.

Greatgig

March 28th, 2020 at 9:43 PM ^

Inside Out destroys me. Having a child who struggles with mental/emotional issues puts me on a tee for that movie to knock out of the park

mgobleu

March 28th, 2020 at 9:44 PM ^

We just watched Wonder last night. I didn't cry but I could have. I have a real soft spot for people with physical and mental challenges and kids can just be brutal.

Macenblu

March 28th, 2020 at 9:46 PM ^

There’s an old saying (well, since 1970 at least): “there are those who cried watching Brian’s Song and there are those who never saw Brian’s Song”

Sam1863

March 29th, 2020 at 6:52 AM ^

That was a killer. Terrific movie, two perfectly-cast leads, and if the story doesn't make you cry, the music will. Back in the days when the "Movie of the Week" was often better than something you'd see in the cinema.

One little odd thing I noticed years later: the interior of the Sayers' house was the same one used as Samantha and Darrin Stevens' house on "Bewitched." A savings on production costs.

MileHighWolverine

March 28th, 2020 at 9:46 PM ^

Pre kids, zero movies. Post kids, almost all of them. 

Don't know if it's the advanced age, the kids or the accumulation of years of alcohol abuse but I find myself crying at movies a hell of a lot more as the days go by.

evenyoubrutus

March 28th, 2020 at 9:48 PM ^

To this day the ending of "Coco" is truly the only movie where tears actually rolled down my face. Of course I had lost my daughter only months earlier so that really added to it.

Maximumblue

March 28th, 2020 at 9:50 PM ^

I went to see Platoon with a girlfriend and she was so into the flow of the film, but when Bunny goes nuts with the rifle in the village, we were both crying, so powerful. Philadelphia was another moving experience. 

bighouse1979

March 28th, 2020 at 9:50 PM ^

The scene in remember the Titans when Julius goes to visit Gary in the hospital and the nurse says” Sorry only family”. Gary replies “ Can’t you see he’s family”. I cry every time, that scene is so emotional for me as a former football player. 

RGard

March 29th, 2020 at 9:37 AM ^

Agreed, Saving Private Ryan.  From the start, the movie blasts the audience with graphic violence, then Captain Miller's men (all likable in their own individual way) are dying one by one with each encounter with the Germans.  You'd think all that would numb the audience to the point where nothing at the end could impact you.

Then the scene at the end.  Yep, watery eyes.

Spielberg totally deserved that directing Oscar.  That and Hanks was robbed of the best actor (he played the citizen soldier perfectly) and the movie was robbed of the best picture award.

Pinto1987

March 29th, 2020 at 10:37 AM ^

I had been to the cemetery at St Laurent sur Mer twice before Saving Private Ryan came out.  On both those occasions, I saw veterans visiting with their families.  One particular family was consoling their veteran father/grandfather as he sat on a bench and sobbed.  I will never forget it.  For me, I have never had a film scene move me the way that final scene in SPR does.  I cannot watch it (or even think about it) without sobbing myself.  Nothing even comes close.

Wolverdirt

March 29th, 2020 at 10:53 AM ^

Had to sit through the credits at the end of SPR to pull my shit together.  Just when the wife and I were about ready to get up, a little old lady walked from the back of the theatre all the way to the front and just sat there, leaned forward with her head resting on the seat back ahead of her while staring at the screen. I can only try to imagine what she was contemplating, but that image has stuck with me. Talk about the power of a well-told story.

uncle leo

March 28th, 2020 at 10:15 PM ^

I'm a panzy and get teary-eyed at a lot of flicks.

But one that can get me every single time is the last scene in Last Samurai when the music is flaring up, then the guy gets the machine gun to fire and the music completely freezes, and all of them get killed. And then they pump in the emotional score. Every time, can't get through it.

turtleboy

March 28th, 2020 at 10:23 PM ^

One that didn't used to, but now as an adult I see it with totally different eyes. The Karate Kid, where Miyagi has been the downtrodden, sympathetic, reserved figure his whole life, his wife and kid died, he lives as a hermit and virtual recluse, until Daniel needs saving and forces him to come back to life. At the end when Daniel wins the tourney, and Miyagi can barely contain his parental pride for his son-he-never-had... the feels.  Also,  surprisingly Groundhogs Day is very touching, behind the genius humor. When he stops indulging, and trying to kill himself, and starts saving the old homeless man, fruitlessly. Murray can be a very sensitive actor. 

mgobleu

March 28th, 2020 at 11:02 PM ^

Oh the dogs... Not the dang dogs. You just reminded me of another one- Togo (Spoiler alert: everything you know about Balto is BS. He's a fake and a headline stealing s.o.b.). 

But anyway, I have flat out refused to watch A dog's purpose, a dog's journey, Hachi, and the art of racing in the rain because they all look like they're going to make me blubber like an idiot over my own dog. 

 

Special Agent Utah

March 28th, 2020 at 11:02 PM ^

Many of the Star Wars films released after the original trilogy have made me cry, except it hasn’t for good reasons.  

turtleboy

March 29th, 2020 at 10:19 PM ^

Seconded. I'm a huge Star Wars fan, it's strange for some to hear that I haven't even seen the last 3 movies: solo, last jedi, and Rise, but as I said, I'm a Star Wars fan, and these crappy, ham handed cash grabs aren't Star Wars. Basically bad fan fiction. 

Double-D

March 28th, 2020 at 11:06 PM ^

My buddy and I would get ridiculously stoned and go to movies in high school.  We would just get high and walk in and pick one.  

So we go in and see Terms of Endearment.  We walked out of the movie literally sobbing like babies and ran into two girls we knew in the parking lot.  

It was hard to explain. 

scanner blue

March 28th, 2020 at 11:07 PM ^

Not a movie but Mr. Teske had me crying in seconds post game at his last basketball game in Crisler. (Most senior nights in any sport have me misty —- Adam Coon got me a few years ago, and he should be trying to make the Olympics right about now).