OT- What films have made you cry as an adult?
March 28th, 2020 at 10:41 PM ^
Forrest, when he's talking to Jenny at her tombstone:
You died on a Saturday morning. And I had you placed here under our tree. And I had that house of your father's bulldozed to the ground. Momma always said dyin' was a part of life. I sure wish it wasn't. Little Forrest, he's doing just fine. About to start school again soon. I make his breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day. I make sure he combs his hair and brushes his teeth every day. Teaching him how to play ping-pong. He's really good. We fish a lot. And every night, we read a book. He's so smart, Jenny. You'd be so proud of him. I am. He, uh, wrote a letter, and he says I can't read it. I'm not supposed to, so I'll just leave it here for you. Jenny, I don't know if Momma was right or if, if it's Lieutenant Dan. I don't know if we each have a destiny, or if we're all just floating around accidental-like on a breeze, but I, I think maybe it's both. Maybe both is happening at the same time. I miss you, Jenny. If there's anything you need, I won't be far away.
Pretty much any movie where a dog dies.
And the Notebook.
March 29th, 2020 at 12:40 AM ^
The first time Forrest meets his son gets me choked up every time.
I don't remember if I physically cried, but Hotel Rwanda was one of the most tense, frightening films I have ever watched and I can still remember the palpable fear I felt in some of the more tense scenes.
I don't cry much at movies but I cried 20 minutes consecutively at the end of United 93,
The bravery of the passengers and the brutality of terrorists invokes so much emotion.
I hate the thought of those terrorists and what they did. Burn in hell.
It’s a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood came close.
Great redemptive story about the writer. Also nice to know that some of our heroes really are/were heroes
Toy Story 3, Iron Giant, Finding Nemo. Yeah a lot of kids movies.
March 28th, 2020 at 10:04 PM ^
I wish they hadn’t done Toy Story 4 because 3 ended on such a pitch perfect note.
March 29th, 2020 at 12:48 AM ^
TBH I teared up at the end of Toy Story 4. I think it was the culmination of watching the movies with my kids (ages 15 through 5) coupled with Woody saying goodbye to Buzz and starting a new adventure with Bo Peep...damn kids movies.
March 28th, 2020 at 10:35 PM ^
Iron giant is such a wonderful movie. Great idea, great writing, perfect pacing and execution, and the theme of wrestling with inner demons and sacrificing innocence. It seems silly to attribute themes like that to a cartoon, but its no stretch of the imagination, they're central to the story. The iron giant might as well have been the beloved family pet.
Inside Out destroys me. Having a child who struggles with mental/emotional issues puts me on a tee for that movie to knock out of the park
We just watched Wonder last night. I didn't cry but I could have. I have a real soft spot for people with physical and mental challenges and kids can just be brutal.
March 29th, 2020 at 12:01 AM ^
By my third watch, I was like "huh. this movie is kind of sappy."
But the first two times I could not hold it together.
And to the comment above: yes, a million times, yes. Parenthood has definitely turned me into an emotional basketcase.
I couldn’t stop crying in that movie. Afterwards, I had a very stern talk with my 3 boys. If I ever hear about them making fun of another kid, no matter the disability, heads will roll.
There’s an old saying (well, since 1970 at least): “there are those who cried watching Brian’s Song and there are those who never saw Brian’s Song”
That was a killer. Terrific movie, two perfectly-cast leads, and if the story doesn't make you cry, the music will. Back in the days when the "Movie of the Week" was often better than something you'd see in the cinema.
One little odd thing I noticed years later: the interior of the Sayers' house was the same one used as Samantha and Darrin Stevens' house on "Bewitched." A savings on production costs.
Pre kids, zero movies. Post kids, almost all of them.
Don't know if it's the advanced age, the kids or the accumulation of years of alcohol abuse but I find myself crying at movies a hell of a lot more as the days go by.
The SpongeBob SquarePants Movie.
The Green Mile still gets me when the kill off John Coffey
To this day the ending of "Coco" is truly the only movie where tears actually rolled down my face. Of course I had lost my daughter only months earlier so that really added to it.
March 29th, 2020 at 12:17 PM ^
Shit EYB. I’m sorry. No parent should ever have to lose a child.
I went to see Platoon with a girlfriend and she was so into the flow of the film, but when Bunny goes nuts with the rifle in the village, we were both crying, so powerful. Philadelphia was another moving experience.
Both on my list. If you want to be moved and educated about the Vietnam disaster, watch the Ken Burns doc series. The moments in Platoon barely capture the true, sick insanity that went down there. It should be required viewing for every American.
The scene in remember the Titans when Julius goes to visit Gary in the hospital and the nurse says” Sorry only family”. Gary replies “ Can’t you see he’s family”. I cry every time, that scene is so emotional for me as a former football player.
That scene gets me every time. Every damn time
I love Brian Piccolo
Onward
yep- it got me good.
March 28th, 2020 at 10:03 PM ^
Life of Pi is the most recent.
March 28th, 2020 at 10:08 PM ^
The end of Moulin Rouge.
March 28th, 2020 at 10:14 PM ^
The end of Saving Private Ryan, at the cemetery.
This. Dad was a vet, uncle never made it out alive, Grandpa was a vet.
Still have a hard time with that scene
Agreed, Saving Private Ryan. From the start, the movie blasts the audience with graphic violence, then Captain Miller's men (all likable in their own individual way) are dying one by one with each encounter with the Germans. You'd think all that would numb the audience to the point where nothing at the end could impact you.
Then the scene at the end. Yep, watery eyes.
Spielberg totally deserved that directing Oscar. That and Hanks was robbed of the best actor (he played the citizen soldier perfectly) and the movie was robbed of the best picture award.
March 29th, 2020 at 11:45 AM ^
Agree on the best picture. I think that was the year they gave it to the people flying around with dragons or some bullshit.
March 29th, 2020 at 12:02 PM ^
They gave it to Shakespeare in Love (shit movie). I think the fact that Saving Private Ryan and Thin Red Line came out the same year hurt both movies when it came to the Oscars. Split the war movie vote.
You are correct. Didn’t realize Thin Red Line came out the same year. Another great movie, not a tear jerker for me though.
March 29th, 2020 at 10:37 AM ^
I had been to the cemetery at St Laurent sur Mer twice before Saving Private Ryan came out. On both those occasions, I saw veterans visiting with their families. One particular family was consoling their veteran father/grandfather as he sat on a bench and sobbed. I will never forget it. For me, I have never had a film scene move me the way that final scene in SPR does. I cannot watch it (or even think about it) without sobbing myself. Nothing even comes close.
March 29th, 2020 at 10:53 AM ^
Had to sit through the credits at the end of SPR to pull my shit together. Just when the wife and I were about ready to get up, a little old lady walked from the back of the theatre all the way to the front and just sat there, leaned forward with her head resting on the seat back ahead of her while staring at the screen. I can only try to imagine what she was contemplating, but that image has stuck with me. Talk about the power of a well-told story.
March 28th, 2020 at 10:15 PM ^
I'm a panzy and get teary-eyed at a lot of flicks.
But one that can get me every single time is the last scene in Last Samurai when the music is flaring up, then the guy gets the machine gun to fire and the music completely freezes, and all of them get killed. And then they pump in the emotional score. Every time, can't get through it.
March 28th, 2020 at 10:23 PM ^
One that didn't used to, but now as an adult I see it with totally different eyes. The Karate Kid, where Miyagi has been the downtrodden, sympathetic, reserved figure his whole life, his wife and kid died, he lives as a hermit and virtual recluse, until Daniel needs saving and forces him to come back to life. At the end when Daniel wins the tourney, and Miyagi can barely contain his parental pride for his son-he-never-had... the feels. Also, surprisingly Groundhogs Day is very touching, behind the genius humor. When he stops indulging, and trying to kill himself, and starts saving the old homeless man, fruitlessly. Murray can be a very sensitive actor.
March 28th, 2020 at 10:32 PM ^
Watched Onward with my 3 year old today. My brother is my best friend, and that movie made me tear up a bit
March 28th, 2020 at 10:33 PM ^
Marley and Me
Old Yeller
you may detect a theme here...
March 28th, 2020 at 10:56 PM ^
You might want to avoid Turner and Hooch.
March 28th, 2020 at 11:03 PM ^
1. Brian’s Song (still 49 years later).
2. Ghost (the concluding scene).
3. Pride of the Yankees
4. Death Be Not Proud
March 28th, 2020 at 11:02 PM ^
Oh the dogs... Not the dang dogs. You just reminded me of another one- Togo (Spoiler alert: everything you know about Balto is BS. He's a fake and a headline stealing s.o.b.).
But anyway, I have flat out refused to watch A dog's purpose, a dog's journey, Hachi, and the art of racing in the rain because they all look like they're going to make me blubber like an idiot over my own dog.
March 28th, 2020 at 11:05 PM ^
My kids made me watch A Dog’s Purpose and I damn near disowned them until the ending made it ok.
March 28th, 2020 at 11:13 PM ^
lifelong friend of mine wrote that book. consulted me on another one of his books. very funny guy.
March 28th, 2020 at 11:02 PM ^
Many of the Star Wars films released after the original trilogy have made me cry, except it hasn’t for good reasons.
March 29th, 2020 at 10:19 PM ^
Seconded. I'm a huge Star Wars fan, it's strange for some to hear that I haven't even seen the last 3 movies: solo, last jedi, and Rise, but as I said, I'm a Star Wars fan, and these crappy, ham handed cash grabs aren't Star Wars. Basically bad fan fiction.
March 28th, 2020 at 11:06 PM ^
My buddy and I would get ridiculously stoned and go to movies in high school. We would just get high and walk in and pick one.
So we go in and see Terms of Endearment. We walked out of the movie literally sobbing like babies and ran into two girls we knew in the parking lot.
It was hard to explain.
March 28th, 2020 at 11:07 PM ^
Not a movie but Mr. Teske had me crying in seconds post game at his last basketball game in Crisler. (Most senior nights in any sport have me misty —- Adam Coon got me a few years ago, and he should be trying to make the Olympics right about now).