OT MGoUndergrads/Alums High Rise vs Single Family Homes
My Daughter is a Freshman and will be leaving Mary Markley for independent living. very soon Without going into our conflict of where she should/wants to live I would like to hear your thoughts on the Pro's and Cons High Rise living vs Single Family Home life. With these projects building up ever so fast is the single family a dinosaur? I would love hear opinions from those who have lived in both dwellings or a parent like myself
February 10th, 2017 at 3:23 PM ^
Go the house route. She and 4-6 of her close friends should rent a house and enjoy the hell out of the best part of the college experience.
We had dozens of BBQs and parties that I don't think would have been feasible in either an apartment or dorm (we lost a lot of kegs to RAs the second semester of senior year). These are the times that I cherish from my college experience.
I don't see how apartments are much different from the dorm experience. Don't get me wrong, the dorms were a great way to meet a lot of people freshman year and my circle of friends still revolves around that group of guys from over 25 years back, but the general lack of freedom in the dorms (and probably in the high rise apartments) put a damper on a lot of the social aspect.
February 10th, 2017 at 3:38 PM ^
What just happened here?
February 10th, 2017 at 11:38 PM ^
Another idiot moment on a Friday:
"(we lost a lot of kegs to RAs the second semester of freshman year)"
February 10th, 2017 at 3:34 PM ^
February 10th, 2017 at 3:43 PM ^
I did one year at University Towers (I think that is what it was called) on S Forrest, and then 2 years at the Coop next to the rock on Washtenaw, it's called Luther.
Coop was infinitely more fun. More social options for all spectrums of the definition of "fun," with the added bonus of food supplied and cooked for you or by you.
February 10th, 2017 at 3:59 PM ^
February 10th, 2017 at 4:07 PM ^
the squeezing
I can't take it!
February 10th, 2017 at 6:01 PM ^
Surely the Hatter has something to do with this, yes?
February 10th, 2017 at 9:44 PM ^
February 11th, 2017 at 12:41 AM ^
There are a lot of out-of-staters who seem to think that NYC or SF rental rates apply to AA, and this has driven some insane rents in these days. The rates in these high-rise buildings are often over $1000 per month per room. Moreover, the dirty secret is that the buildings are not well maintained, and some have major outages (elevator, hot water, etc).
These buildings tend to be a social status thing, with students feeling like they absoulutely MUST be in a certain building with certain people or their life WILL end. For better or for worse, I regularly work with college students and it's amazing how much they stress (often at the expense of academics) over who they will live with and where every lease-signing season.
My kids are still young so it's easy for me to talk but personally I'd set the budget and say live where you want on "x" dollars.
Finally, I live on North Campus and a 2500 sq ft colonial just sold for about $250,000 in a nice area. If your're ready to drop $1000+ a month on rent, why not get a whole house for about as much and she can rent it to her friends? Not to mention you can rent it when you're done for over $2000 a month.
February 11th, 2017 at 11:27 AM ^