Malarkey

September 9th, 2020 at 12:52 PM ^

Limited social interactions are fine. Massive gatherings are not fine. 
 

Modified small Halloween party with 4 families that share employment/schools/etc risk factors?  Seems reasonable

 

Block party Halloween with waves of children?  Probably a bad idea 

 

I think a 10-15 family member gathering for thanksgiving dinner wouldn’t apply. If you’re hosting 100 people, reconsider your plans

BlueRob

September 9th, 2020 at 1:12 PM ^

Try telling that to my wife's family.  She is 1 of 11 and all of them have started families of their own.  Thanksgiving is now 75 people, just with immediate family members. I am just not sure you can put a number on these things.  Everyone's situations are different.  People need to be allowed to use their brains instead of being told what to do by the gov't.

HateSparty

September 9th, 2020 at 1:20 PM ^

Interesting.  How do you feel about anarchy?  Why get married at all?  It's a legal agreement that tells you that you are a couple.  Is it even needed?  Social security card, are you saying fuck that, no one needs to know what I'm tied to?  Driver's license?  Screw that.  Waste of money.  You like that car?  Just freaking take it.  Where does it end?? Damn government should just let us people use our brains and not be governed.  

njvictor

September 9th, 2020 at 2:41 PM ^

His point is that people are stupid and shitty and that government needs to sometimes put laws and restrictions in place to stop people from being shitty in ways that have consequences for other people. In this case, you, your wife, and your wife's family are being stupid and shitty

BlueRob

September 9th, 2020 at 2:53 PM ^

Or...  The majority of them live in a rural area of western PA that has essentially zero cases of covid.  They are together with each other often and take precautions by social distancing / masks with everything else they do.  

Just because there are 75 people it doesn't mean it's irresponsible.  There is a doctor, 2 nurses, 4 engineers, 2 tradesman and a teacher.  All taking the appropriate precautions but thank you for your internet assessment of our shitty family.  

 

scrubsnsuch

September 9th, 2020 at 10:44 PM ^

What people do on the roads is vastly different than what they do in their homes. Apple meet orange.  There are very few laws governing what you can do in your home. Saying something you do in your home is a "bad idea" is fine. Making it illegal is over reach.

BlueRob

September 9th, 2020 at 2:42 PM ^

I agree with you Monocle Smile, this country does have a serious disease and it's been closer to 6 decades. It's that more and more people think it's the governments job to fix everything vs taking control and start by fixing the neighborhoods they live in.  Investing in their neighbors and towns vs being only concerned about themselves.

We are talking about the same social issues today as were being talked about back in the 60's and 70's.  Every four years theses issues rise to a breaking point and then simmer down until the next election.  If there is any better argument that the government is not going to fix this 'disease', it's that they haven't done anything about it over the last 60 years. 

Hell, there is a candidate running for president that has been saying he would fix this stuff for the last 50 years, and yet people believe he will all of a sudden be able to fix it in the next 4?  And no, I do not think Trump will be able to fix these issues either.

My take on it is that until people fix the following, nothing will change:

  • the breakdown of the family -- too many single parent homes, divorce, drugs, etc
  • education -- disadvantaged neighborhoods need to have access to 'better' schools 

Kids are being raised in toxic environments with no vision into what life should look like.  All they know is what they see and experience which then leads them them growing up and starting the next cycle. 

So long story short...  I agree there is a population of people that struggles to make good decisions for themselves.  Where I disagree is that the answer lies with our government.     

 

TIMMMAAY

September 9th, 2020 at 3:43 PM ^

And under no circumstance should we seek to discover the root causes of these "social problems" that have plagued us for decades. It's just such a lousy argument. There are only two causes here; dude is completely ignorant to the real root issues and instead focuses on the symptoms because either he's been mislead or just ignorant. Or, he's willfully blind to it, possibly even just acting in bad faith (that would carry some darker connotations that I will leave blank). 

Shop Smart Sho…

September 9th, 2020 at 5:35 PM ^

You're talking about the BREAKDOWN of families and too many single parents. In living memory women were strictly limited in what constituted grounds for divorce, and in generally fell to abandonment and infidelity. Abuse was not a reason generally granted to women filing for divorce. 


And I'd really like to know who you think populates this group: "I agree there is a population of people that struggles to make good decisions for themselves."

BlueRob

September 9th, 2020 at 3:03 PM ^

My wife's parent's house has a kitchen with 2 ovens and makes 2 huge turkey's, not sure of the weight.  How big can you get them?  They have a large dining room and living room so we put fold out tables there.  We have enough seating for all the kids to eat first.  The adults mostly just fill in or stand at the bars in the kitchen.  

It is surprisingly efficient.  Her mom cooks everything else in roasters and large crock pots.  It is a very unique and fantastic time.  It really keeps everyone grounded in reality.

BlueRob

September 9th, 2020 at 5:27 PM ^

Yes - grounded in reality because there are so many differing points of view. Discussions can be had about any topic without resorting to the hate and anger that people with differing opinions show on this board. 

I am sorry it sounds horrible to you.  The kids have an incredible time and it is it is a blast.  Sitting at a table with 2 or 3 other people on Thanksgiving sounds terrible to me but that is what makes us all different I guess right?

 

 

andrewG

September 9th, 2020 at 12:54 PM ^

There's a big difference between forbidding all human interaction and forbidding an activity that essentially maximizes the number of interactions that can be squeezed into one sugar-fueled evening.

If you can't see that, look to your left. What do you see? Does it look like a rectum? How about to your right? Still rectum? OK, now listen carefully-- try pulling your head out of your ass. It might hurt.

NittanyFan

September 9th, 2020 at 1:25 PM ^

Fine, call it a strawman.  But I'd say that your own post includes some strawmen:

(1) "people pack the streets" --- this is not necessarily true.  Kids can trick-or-treat while staying a distance away from each other.  I've never seen any neighborhood where trick-or-treating is occurring where people are packed in shoulder-to-shoulder.

(2) "second largest city" --- LA's neighborhoods are no more densely populated than other American cities.  Yes, LA is 2nd in the nation in population, but that's primarily a function of how geographically large it is.

(3) "one of the easiest ways to spread COVID widely to other people" --- I don't agree with that at all.  Think about a kid going up to a house.  (A) The interaction is usually only 2 minutes long.  (B) There's at least a 50% chance the kid's costume already consists of a mask.  (C) The candy-giver may be wearing a mask themselves.  Scientific studies have shown that virus spread is considerably more likely with a longer interaction.  2 minutes is not very long at all - most studies show a considerably longer interaction is required for significant spread.

Infectious Dis…

September 9th, 2020 at 2:18 PM ^

The AMA, AAP, CDC, WHO, NEJM, not to mention every pediatrician in our practice and that I know has said that this not a danger to children and that there is no reason to stop normal activities, yet here we are, ignoring them while we cower in fear.

We have simply taken leave of our senses and grabbed onto this crazy narrative.  

Trick or Treat is not going to kill your kids.  However, suicide and depression will if we don't start acting like sane adults.

1VaBlue1

September 9th, 2020 at 2:44 PM ^

Half a million child cases and going up...

The numbers on this page correspond to the numbers associated with adults.  Children have largely been isolated from C-19 until school started.  Since then, over the last few weeks, these cases have climbed quickly.  I don't see how a child is any less 'at risk' than an adult - they have the same body design and systems that adults have, only smaller.  They will transmit the disease as quickly as anyone else, may well suffer long term affects, and may well infect more immediately vulnerable populations (parents/grandparents).

I'm not trying to argue against trick-or-treating, but I'm also not going to throw out a threat because kids haven't died as much as adults.

TrueBlue2003

September 9th, 2020 at 3:10 PM ^

Uh, bud who do you think gives the kids the candy?  Old people that have kids screaming trick or treat in their faces.  No, it's not a risk to kids but a risk to anyone potentially giving them candy.

I don't think it's necessary to ban it, per se.  But I can't imagine many people would have been handing out candy in our neighborhood  (I live in LA) so I'm kind of glad they just made it official so people don't have to wonder and waste money on candy they won't give out or walk around the neighborhood only to find that no one is handing out candy anyway.

MJG

September 9th, 2020 at 4:45 PM ^

Here’s a question, Infectious: If you believe the pandemic is a manufactured fear, why was it manufactured? 
 

And based on your answer to that question, we’ll at least know why you spout off all the bullshit you do on here. 

1VaBlue1

September 9th, 2020 at 2:34 PM ^

This post shows your 'white privilege' upbringing (to use an over-used term).  And to be clear, I'm also one of the guys that benefits from 'white privilege'.

1) Every year, in well-funded neighborhoods and at 'trunk-or-treat' events, I see kids careening all over the place, going in both directions, and piling up at doors while waiting their turn.  Where do you think that trick-or-treating can become a well-organized, distanced, and controlled event?

2) So you apparently think that only kids in nice neighborhoods trick-or-treat.  I guess high-rise towers, apartment complexes, and retail areas don't get any trick-or-treat traffic, right?

3) Opening up everyone to even a 2-minute interaction (probably less) certainly increases exposure and adds to overall risk.  Given the polarized posture America has right now, is there any reason that you'd expect everyone to wear a mask and show concern for their fellow citizen?  A lot of people go outside of their home area to trick-or-treat, as well, and so could transmit C-19 from one neighborhood to another.

This country - one of the richest in the world, with the highest standard of living - is currently experiencing one of the worst outbreaks in the world of a disease that everyone else has largely under control.  Our passport is currently useless because of the shitty response we've had.  So there are two paths to choose from here: 1) say fuck it, and just live with it; or 2) do something about it.

So what we're getting, instead of one of the two viable choices, is a half measure of nothing.  You know, the same response we've had since the beginning...

TrueBlue2003

September 9th, 2020 at 2:49 PM ^

Trick or treating is a potentially risky thing because of the number of strangers interacting with one another.  It's usually old people giving out candy to kids.  Like hundreds of random kids coming up and yelling trick or treat in old peoples faces and touching a bowl that everyone involved touches.

Handing out candy just doesn't seem like a thing many people would want to do.  Hm, let's see, do I want to risk my life to give a bunch of kids some tooth rotting candy for a night?

I live in Los Angeles and it's interesting because I was just talking to some friends about what Halloween is even going to look like this year (I have kids age 3 and 4 so the most fun trick or treating ages) and I assumed virtually no houses would be handing out candy anyway.

I don't think it's necessary to ban it, per se, if they wanted to let people decide for themselves whether to participate.  But I'm kind of glad they just made it official so people don't have to wonder and waste money on candy they won't give out or walk around the neighborhood only to find that no one is handing out candy anyway.

Huge difference between that and Thanksgiving dinner because Tgiving is with family that you know.  You know where they've been, etc.  And there isn't interfamily exchange.  Very different.