OT: Valentine's Day Open Thread

Submitted by 1989 UM GRAD on

So, it's another Valentine's Day.

I fall somewhere in between the people who think it's just another Hallmark Holiday...and those who take it very seriously and see it as an opportunity to use Facebook to display the specialness of their love/relationship.

My third grade daughter was very excited to present me with the Valentine's Day card she picked out especially for me...and my wife and I followed our usual tradition of hiding cards for one another in drawers in the bathroom and in our dresser.

After work, it's off to dinner with my family and my parents.

What's everyone else doing?  Do you buy in to the Valentine's Day hype or are you a grumpy naysayer?

Darth Wolverine

February 14th, 2013 at 11:59 AM ^

Seriously? A Valentine's Day thread? This is so lame. Before you say anything like, "Well someone doesn't have a special someone," I am happily married. This is just a dumb thread.

DH16

February 14th, 2013 at 12:04 PM ^

Getting lunch at the caf with my imaginary girlfriend, then studying with my imaginary girlfriend, then dinner with my imaginary girlfriend, then maybe hang out with my imaginary girlfriend and then maybe study more with my imaginary girlfriend. If I'm lucky I'll sleep with my imaginary girlfriend.

CRex

February 14th, 2013 at 12:13 PM ^

One of the joys of a relationship with an Asian is you're often off the hook for VD, of course you're on the hook for Lunar New Years.  This year we exchanged rifles with each other.  I think my wife is having second thoughts about asking for a H&K SR9TC, since it weighes just over 10% of her body weight with an empty mag.  Toss in a 20 round box mag and a scope and it gets worse.  Nice gun though.  

My tradition is stopping by the florist tomorrow and seeing if they got in anything exotic for VD and if it is on clearance yet.  My wife always likes fresh flowers around the house (but yells at me for paying VD markups on them).  

JeepinBen

February 14th, 2013 at 1:06 PM ^

As with many things, the day after the holiday is the jackpot. If you don't buy candy on November 1st or February 15th, you're an idiot (not necessarily for the holidy, but to have. because candy). Same with flowers on 2/14 and christmas lights on 12/26.

My girlfriend and I are long distance, so today I don't have a ton going on. But she's coming to town tomorrow which means I'll be picking up some flowers and chocolates at 1/3rd price and go from there

User -not THAT user

February 14th, 2013 at 12:39 PM ^

...before the abbreviations clicked.

Speaking of Asian, me and mine will be meeting for hibachi at the neighborhood steakhouse after work.  We've got a tax bill due and a deductible to pay on a car wreck so it's not the best time for it financially, but sometimes you've just got to take the opportunity to let your spouse know how important they are to you.

LSAClassOf2000

February 14th, 2013 at 12:28 PM ^

Well, if all is going well, the flowers for my wife should be showing up at the house any moment now. I will follow in a few hours, of course, with wine and a gift. Sadly, as it is a school night and my daughter has dance class, the dinner at The Earle will not happen until the weekend, and only after a birthday party at a McDonalds to which my son was invited. It is virtually impossible to celebrate something like this on the actual day, especially when it is a weekday.

As a sidenote, my daughter, who takes this all very seriously, spent two hours making treat bags for her class last night and then presented my wife and I with cards this morning. Indeed, she was so excited to pass them out that she cut short "Donuts With Daddy" at her school this morning so she could go back to class and pass out her stuff. As a result of this meticulous exercise in Valentine manufacturing, there is a bag full of extra Snickers bars in my kitchen, if anyone is interested.

Drunk Uncle

February 14th, 2013 at 12:36 PM ^

My wife is a lobbyist and is working shit ton of hours right now with everything that is going on...  Hopefully she gets home at a decent time and we can hang out.  I've got flowers and chocolates for her, both of which seem completely cliché to me, but they make her happy.

Call your Mom!!

Feat of Clay

February 14th, 2013 at 2:03 PM ^

Happily married, love my husband, got him a card, but not planning to do much special today.  Restaurants too oversubscribed, plus we're keeping a close eye on our budget.  

My middle schooler is too old to give valentine's to his male friends and too cool/shy to give valentines to girls.  I think he is giving out a few Dr Who themed cards but nothing special.

The holiday is fine, worth a little recognition.  Nothing to get bitter about, but on the other hand it's nothing to go overboard for, at least not at this particular stage in my life. 

WolverineFanatic6

February 14th, 2013 at 2:35 PM ^

Wrote my girlfriend a poem, making her a 3 course meal.. Homemade loaded potato skins for app, ny strip steak, and veggies for entree, and kit kat cheesecake for dessert